A woman was surprised by her husband just before she left for a work trip.
The Set-Up.
A woman told the story of what her husband did to her on the internet. She tells us that they have had a busy year. They’ve been working overtime, they’ve renovated a house, and she’s been working out a lot, all of which are understandable reasons for a possible slowdown in their sex life.
The Email.
The wife had to leave for a 10-day work trip with their busy lives in mind. She got an email from her husband as she was going to the airport. He tried to have sex every single time in the last seven weeks.
The Spreadsheet.
This is frightening. He keeps track of the dates on which he tried to have sex but also gives her an excuse. He was writing this stuff down so he could make her feel bad.
An Emotional Wreck.
She was a wreck as a result of this email. He wouldn’t answer her calls. She said that she was supposed to be visiting clients for the next nine days, but is now an emotional wreck. Why is he putting me through this? Hopefully, she never gave him the chance to do it again.
Weird Energy.
The husband could have talked to his wife and explained why he was upset. He was working on a spreadsheet. What kind of bastard is this?
Do Better Than A List.
It’s a problem if he doesn’t know that she’s had all this going on. People seek marriage counseling all the time and there are options they can try instead of being passive-aggressive.
Sour Times.
She’s alone and probably crying. It’s not cool, dude.
Other Options Here.
They shared how they dealt with their relationship troubles. Something is not right with this man.
New Plan.
There’s still an out if he’s not willing to try counseling or talk to her like a normal person.
Not An Attempt To Seduce.
The husband might be right in his attempt to inform his wife that he feels bad.
His method is off. Why don’t you just open up in person?
Where Is The Communication?
Where is the actual communication taking place? Why did this guy choose the most passive-aggressive way to deal with the issue? Don’t be afraid of what will be said because it isn’t going to improve the sexual relationship if you write up a list and email it.