A friend in need is a friend indeed. After all, it restores our faith in humanity. But how are you going to stop a friend when they start taking things too far, either becoming a choosy beggar, moocher, or a straight-up jerk? 

The same thing has happened with a Reddit user, which led to her asking the trusty r/AmITheA-Hole community to help understand if she’s wrong here.

Helping someone out in a time of need by preparing a meal or two is great if they don’t get too comfortable with it

This Reddit user shared a story of how a grieving friend of her husband grew ever so demanding with her help over a span of 3 months

So, she went to ask Reddit if she was in the wrong here, and they unanimously determined that no, she’s not wrong